I know what role I play in the lives of the people around me. I don't need you to tell me. Understand that I still believe I have larger feelings for you than that of a friend, but don't think that just because I have these feelings that I'm going to act upon them. I understand that you don't want me in your life as anything more than a friend, and I don't plan on being anything you don't want, so don't attack me for trying to help just as I would've helped ANY of my friends.
You've been nice to me and humored me and my feelings for a while now and I am very grateful for it... but if you start treating me like shit now it would defeat the purpose of treating me with such patients for the last few months.
I can only get so mad at you, so I'm reluctant to say some of the things that I want to say, but I will say this. I can tell that he is not healthy for you... but coming from me, a suggestion to leave him behind and separate yourself from him, would look only like a plea for my own interests. That is why I said what I said, and instead of taking your side, suggested trying to solve the problem between you two instead of deciding on total separation.
